What major life changes did your diagnosis bring?
Being diagnosed with cancer was the first time I've really had to face a major health issue. I suppose in some ways there aren't too many realizations that could come as more of a shock. It definitely is a reminder of your mortality, and the true value of your health. I was blessed to have the immediate support of family and friends, which really bolstered me through the initial "shock'. Luckily, I am stubborn by nature (genetics/choice?), so I quickly adopted a fairly positive and determined attitude. Actually telling loved ones and friends proved to be a more emotionally difficult hurdle than being diagnosed. I was very concerned over how they would take the news, and whether I could assure them I'd get through it. My diagnosis was not necessarily considered life threatening, but cancer is cancer. Dealing with all the physical and emotional aftermath of treatment was not something I took seriously enough, nor was prepared for. There are the quite painful effects of radiation continuing to "cook" the treated area, along with the side effects of chemotherapy drugs . For me, the real fight began with these symptoms and all the emotional uncertainty that is part of the long recovery process. What brought you to CancerLINC and how were they able to help?
A very good long-time friend (and attorney) from my neighborhood referred me to CancerLINC for assistance with estate documents and medical directives. CancerLINC connected me with Adam Young, an Associate Attorney at Mark A. Fleckenstein & Associates, PC. Adam was awesome and immense help with my Estate Documents (Power of attorney and Advanced Medical Directive). Adam has also been a great help when I've needed various legal documents notarized. Currently, CancerLINC is helping me with another legal and financial matter resulting from my cancer journey. It goes without saying that these invaluable services CancerLINC made possible "pro bono" (or at minimal cost) GREATLY reduced my stress, both emotional and financial. I simply could not have afforded, or even navigated these processes without CancerLINC's assistance. Do you have any advice for fellow cancer patients?
Attitude is everything. I truly believe that (somehow) cancer thrives on negativity. You have to adopt a "fighting/stubborn" mindset right from the start. Also, do NOT try to fight alone. Muster any and all of the positive energy and assistance you can from friends and family. If you do not have such a support network, then seek any and all of the services your cancer treatment provider has available (Social Worker, Counseling, etc., etc.). |
